Maybe it’s a new job, moving closer to family, or changing family status— no matter the reason, moving can be overwhelming for parents and their children. So it’s crucial to help your child accept the relocation and adapt to their new home. It’s not always easy, but with some planning, you can help make the experience positive.

The following tips will help you navigate your family’s significant adjustment to your upcoming move.

1. Prepare Them Ahead of Time

Tell your kids as soon as you know you are considering a move. Don’t worry about this distressing your kids. It’s better to be upfront about the move so they have time to process the situation. Be honest about why and how your family will be moving. It might surprise you how well your kids can handle honesty. Use age-appropriate language and be positive in your presentation. Your words and attitude can go a long way in their acceptance of the relocation.

2. Allow for Open Communication

Provide your kids a chance to ask questions about the upcoming move. Encourage them to share their thoughts and concerns and provide a supportive environment as they do so. Be patient as they adjust to the news.

3. Keep The Routine if Possible

Routine gives children something comfortable and reliable when everything else seems chaotic and different. Whether it’s a dinnertime family meal or a bedroom routine of stories and snuggles, these rituals provide a sense of calm and security. You might have to adjust these slightly as you get deeper into the packing process, but hopefully, you can transition your routines to accommodate the changes.

4. Involve Them in the Process

Take your child along while you look for a new home, or let them browse online listings with you. Make it a fun experience researching the potential new neighborhoods, in-person or online. Encourage their input as you look at the possibilities. You might discover interesting things about your kids in the process.

If possible, allow them some Also, allow them to buy something new and different for their room. This will create anticipation and excitement and give the kids something to look forward to when they get there 

5. Capture Some Memories

Moving will force your kids to leave behind friends, family, neighbors, teachers, and classmates. 

Find ways to honor your children’s friendships, favorite places, and current home. Take photos or videos and craft a special scrapbook for them. Then, allow them to help and be part of the fun. 

If possible, arrange a going away party to get everyone together for a little goodbye. Ensure your kids exchange phone numbers, addresses, and appropriate social media information to stay in touch.

New Home Happiness

Planning for your move is essential, especially when planning and mapping your children’s involvement and transition. First, contact us for a free quote. Then, focus on your family, and let us handle the logistics of your upcoming move.